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Tan Xiaojun
·Senior reproductive medicine expert
·Postdoctoral fellow at Peking University
·PhD candidate at Xiangya School of Medicine, Central South University
·Master’s tutor at Central South University
· Master's degree candidate in reproductive medicine at the University of South China
· Professional training at Huazhong University of Science and Technology and Tongji Hospital Reproductive Center
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          egg/sperm donation), microsperm retrieval, embryo freezing and resuscitation, artificial
          insemination (including husband's sperm and sperm donation), paternity testing, chromosomal
          disease
          diagnosis, high-throughput gene sequencing, endometrial receptivity gene testing and other
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          technology applications. Many of these technologies are at the leading level both domestically
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2025.10.27
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I'm not getting married, but I want to be a mother ": A record of a 38 year old single woman giving birth in Kyrgyzstan

【 Tulip International Reproductive Center · Customer Profile 】


When I decided to become a mother as a single person, my life list was left with only a clear goal and a pending coordinate


At the age of 38, with a successful career and financial independence, I have always lacked the most desired part of my life - a child of my own. After ruling out unrealistic options domestically, my gaze ultimately shifted to the capital of Kyrgyzstan, Bishkek.


The reason is simple: clear legal support, top-notch Chinese medical team, and a professional institution - Tulip International Reproductive Center - have planned the entire path for me.


This is not an impulsive trip, but a nearly two-year entrepreneurial project that I consider to be the most important in my life. Today, I would like to share this' project plan 'and' review report '.


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Phase 1: Domestic Preparation Period - Paper War

It all starts with a detailed checklist. The domestic consultant team of Tulip International Reproductive Center provided me with a precise medical examination checklist and a "legal document package" for each project.


Medical preparation: I have completed all fertility assessments at a top tier hospital in China, including AMH, six hormone tests, vaginal ultrasound, etc. The report shows that my ovarian reserve function is still good, which gives me great confidence.


Legal preparation: This is the most crucial prerequisite work. I need to prepare my passport and notarized certificate of singlehood, as well as Hague authentication. The entire process was carried out in an orderly manner under the clear guidance of Tulip Consultant, without any detours.


Phase 2: First trip to Jilin - sowing the seeds of hope (stay for about 18 days)

The first time landing at Bishkek Manas International Airport, seeing the continuous snow capped mountains in the distance, my heart was calm. The shuttle bus from Yujin Xiang International Reproductive Center is waiting at the exit, taking me to the reserved downtown apartment, which is only a ten minute walk to the clinic.


The core tasks of this trip are twofold: completing the egg retrieval cycle and signing all legal prerequisites.


My attending physician is a reproductive specialist from a top public hospital in China. The full Chinese communication made me feel warm and at ease. He analyzed my physical examination report in detail and developed a personalized antagonist ovulation induction plan for me.


The next 12 days will be a regular medical routine: injecting ovulation stimulating drugs at a fixed time every day, monitoring follicles every 3-4 days, and doctors will adjust the dosage in real-time based on ultrasound images. My exclusive medical translator accompanied me throughout the entire process, ensuring accurate communication of all information.


The egg retrieval surgery was performed under general anesthesia, and when I woke up, I was informed of an ideal outcome: "We successfully obtained 14 mature eggs


A few days later, the final embryo report was released: 6 high-quality blastocysts were successfully cultivated. Subsequently, the biopsy samples of these blastocysts were sent for PGT-A gene testing.


While waiting for the genetic report, I met with the collaborating lawyer at the center. With the assistance of medical translation, I signed a thick stack of legal documents. The core of these documents is to clarify that I am the sole authorized parent and future sole legal guardian of the child in accordance with Kyrgyz law, and to officially initiate the subsequent third-party assistance process.


After completing all of this, I returned to my home country with peace of mind, waiting for my genetic report and selecting the most suitable loving mother online.

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Phase Three: Nurturing from Thousands of Miles Away - Remote Project Management

After returning to my home country, I acted like a remote project director, regularly receiving 'project progress reports' from Bishkek. The pregnancy management team of Tulip International Reproductive Center will regularly translate every prenatal examination report and B-ultrasound video of caring mothers into Chinese and send them to me. This transparent and timely communication greatly eased my anxiety.



Stage 4: Going to Ji again - welcoming my child home (staying for about 4 weeks)

The second flight to Bishkek was in the deep winter of the following year. This time, my goal is only one: to bring my son home.


After arriving, Tulip's local team had already planned everything for me. The next day, I met him for the first time at the cooperative obstetrics and gynecology hospital in the center. He was born just five days ago, weighing 7 pounds, healthy and peaceful.


The real 'final battle' immediately began - to handle the full set of legal documents for his return to China. This process requires commuting between the Civil Registration Office, the Ministry of Justice, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and the Chinese Embassy. My service team has demonstrated amazing professionalism and efficiency. They have pre booked all the procedures, prepared translations and copies of every document, and communicated fluently in Russian with every clerk. All I need to do is to appear at the designated time, location, and sign my name.


During the month of waiting for procedures, I checked into the self operated confinement center of Tulip International Reproductive Center, where professional nurses provided 24-hour guidance on how to care for newborns.


When the "People's Republic of China Travel Permit" with his photo and name printed on it was finally handed over to me, I knew that this two-year "entrepreneurial project" had come to a perfect end.




On the flight back home, he slept peacefully in the baby crib next to me. Looking back at all of this, it is not a story full of emotions, but an extremely rational planning and execution. Under the clear legal framework of rules and relying on professional medical and service institutions such as Tulip International Reproductive Center, I independently and efficiently completed the most important life project.


These two flights to Bishkek, the first one was to sow hope, and the second one was to return with a full load.


For fertility consultation in Kyrgyzstan, please contact your dedicated consultant

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